1. Change your residence – Living in a different residence or place will give you a chance to meet new people with different characters and culture. This will create a perfect space to connect with a potential lover since the new person will not judge you based in your past.
2. Dress decently but smart- If you are a lady, you should look decently attractive because men get attracted by what they see. If you look attractive in a descent way, men see a girlfriend and a wife in you. NB ladies in clothes which are very tight or showing their thighs are commonly mistaken that they are looking for a sex partner so any man who will approach you may want to have sex with you then disappear.
3. Create time to visit descent social places – People commonly meet at events or places such as churches, weddings, birthday parties, group tour or road trips. According to research, such places are perfect room for people to connect with someone who is new to them. Create time to mingle with people so that you can meet new people away from your colleagues at, neighbors and family friends.
4. Try to be sociable by talking to people in a polite way – Since a man who commonly approaches a lady, as a lady if a man approaches you, try to be polite even if he is not your type, unpolite language can become your habit even to people who you can be the soul meant for you.
5. Try not to compare the new catch with your ex – if you consider yourself as good person then there are many good people out there. The next person you are going to meet may not have the same characters with your ex even if they are of 6 same race, tribe, language group or from same area.
Strive to be self-reliant financially – Do not make that new person in your life see you as a liability. Give the affair time to grow, from their supporting each other will come as a form of care.
6. Play your role based on your gender – Commonly a man is the one to approach a lady. As a lady do not make the man feel like you want to push him to make moves, some men will take it that you are controlling. If the man is not asking to meet your parents or proposing, it can be a sign that he is not ready to something serious. NB when a man is involving you in his plans and projects it is a sign that you are part of his future even if he has not involved your family or proposed officially.
